At some point, he leaned back into the couch and clasped his hands behind his head.
In my own way, I revealed I was struggling with the same thing.Īnd yep – Mike knows that I’m bi but has never been judged me on that. He started talking about wishing he could hook up with women and was tired of the whole social distancing thing. Not in the psychedelic kind of way but instead, just more detached – know what I mean? As things got cloudier, my ability to focus got blurrier. We were blowing clouds and watching The Oath on Crackle. This wasn’t a surprise because in the past, we’ve shared a smoke together.īut on this occasion, things were different. Cloudy hazeĪt any rate, a few weeks ago, on a Friday night – Mike busted out some 420. Kind of cool, huh? During these training sessions, we got to know one another better and in ways that I can’t explain, increased our level of trust. Mike even started showing me ways to workout using resistance bands and a kettlebell. And to top things off, he played soccer and basketball.ĭuring the first couple of weeks of lockdown, we tried passing the time like a lot of folks do – Netflix, board games, and super long walks to get in cardio. But he’s obsessed with it to the point where it is annoying. To give you an idea, his hobbies include duck hunting, NASCAR racing, and non-stop ESPN. And to keep it real, I can honestly say the guy is as straight as they come. I don’t know why their relationship collapsed but, I think it had something to do with communication issues.ĭuring the entire time we’ve lived together, Mike has never once shown an interest in men. I was able to hang on to my job for a week, but ultimately got furloughed due to lack of demand.īoth of us are single, with Mike breaking up with his girlfriend shortly after the New Year. On the very first day of the mandatory shutdown, Mike’s gym closed. He's a gym trainer and sports freak How It First Happened We’ve always gotten along well but, I can’t say we were ever close. For his part, Mike worked as a personal trainer and fitness coach. Prior to going into lockdown in March, I was employed as a sales manager in the transportation sector. We live in the Midwest and share an apartment together in a large metropolitan city. My roommate – Mike – is 24 and identifies as straight. I know for me personally, I don't equate penis size to sexual prowess, and if I ask one of my girlfriends about the size of one of their partners, it's more out of curiosity than anything else.A little background. It sucks that size is usually the main detail that gets focused on rather than overall performance. Also, sex can still be phenomenal even if the size of someone's partner isn't what they were hoping for. They'll be able build you up, and make you feel sexy and desirable. I know that won't do much to help you feel better about your size right now, but somewhere out there, there's a partner that will fit you like a glove. Rather than putting the onus on yourself, especially because it's in no way your fault, instead place that burden where it belongs - in the realm of sexual incompatibly. I don't know what the deal was with the other girl, but he and I had no issues with any of the positions we tried!
I was in FWB relationship with a buddy of mine and learned from a mutual friend that he was really insecure about his size because a chick told him one time that the position they were trying would be easier if he had a bigger dick. That's a devastating thing to read, and no one should be made to feel like their body isn't suited for intimacy! Plus, I love being able to roll & play with a flaccid dick in my mouth so much so I will bust out the ice to MAKE that hard-on go away & i wouldn't get to enjoy that much if he's already 5" softĪnd a giant shout out to all the r/growers out there. we're oldish and so things start working in different intensities at a certain point for guys, so depending how hard he gets sometimes, it's like I get to play with a different penis & I love it lololol but I got a GREAT detailed story to share occasionally (just not here) ? I know our shit can stretch, but there's limits and it needs to be HIGHLY aroused for the most part (short of birth) to get there. Months later I eventually tried it out myself. They'd all been friends since a young age so yes they knew what his dick was all about. I'd heard it talked about since I'd met the group he ran with. I had someone once who while was alright in girth but was over 12".